Comments on: Banish Fear, Anxiety and Worry! http://heathervale.com/blog/2009/01/02/banish-fear-anxiety-and-worry/ Unwrapping the Mysteries of Life! Fri, 23 Mar 2012 17:32:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Facing the Giants In Search Of Success | Jeff Wellman's Layoff Your Boss Marketing http://heathervale.com/blog/2009/01/02/banish-fear-anxiety-and-worry/#comment-5659 Facing the Giants In Search Of Success | Jeff Wellman's Layoff Your Boss Marketing Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:25:43 +0000 http://heathervale.com/blog/?p=310#comment-5659 [...] PS: Great post by Heather Vale. Seems we are all on the same track this Brand New Year.  I remember seeing her as one of the big scary giants that was standing in my way t success.  When I did reasearch on her before Interviewing her I was met by some words that terrified the heck out of me… Heather Vale, The Barbara Walters of the Internet,  Yikes!  Well they were just words and caused me no harm.  What I found is that it wasn’t her that was keeping me from doing the interview or the words…it was me.  http://heathervale.com/blog/2009/01/02/banish-fear-anxiety-and-worry/trackback/ [...] [...] PS: Great post by Heather Vale. Seems we are all on the same track this Brand New Year.  I remember seeing her as one of the big scary giants that was standing in my way t success.  When I did reasearch on her before Interviewing her I was met by some words that terrified the heck out of me… Heather Vale, The Barbara Walters of the Internet,  Yikes!  Well they were just words and caused me no harm.  What I found is that it wasn’t her that was keeping me from doing the interview or the words…it was me.  http://heathervale.com/blog/2009/01/02/banish-fear-anxiety-and-worry/trackback/ [...]

]]> By: Dave McIntosh http://heathervale.com/blog/2009/01/02/banish-fear-anxiety-and-worry/#comment-5658 Dave McIntosh Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:20:03 +0000 http://heathervale.com/blog/?p=310#comment-5658 Hi Heather There are a lot of fears as you say "Fear of missing out. Fear of failure." As much as I hate to say it or even think it I have them too. We can let them defeat us or we can become their masters and have them stimulate us to action. I choose the second. Dave Hi Heather

There are a lot of fears as you say “Fear of missing out. Fear of failure.” As much as I hate to say it or even think it I have them too. We can let them defeat us or we can become their masters and have them stimulate us to action.
I choose the second.

Dave

]]> By: Jeff Wellman http://heathervale.com/blog/2009/01/02/banish-fear-anxiety-and-worry/#comment-5657 Jeff Wellman Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:15:53 +0000 http://heathervale.com/blog/?p=310#comment-5657 Heather very nice post, Just got done posting on basically the same thing. I remember the fear I was facing the day I asked you for an interview and then going to my hotel room that night wondering what in the heck I just did. Especially once I started researching you and came across the Barbra Walters of the Internet! Those words met me with such force that night and I almost called the interview off. I soon decided they were just words on a website and they were of no threat to me. The only thing that was threatening me was me and my fear of failing and looking like a moron, and failing to meet my son's (Keith Wellman) expectations of his Father. Well if I was going to fail I decided I would fail big and just get it over with. Geesh I found out it was not the easiest thing I ever did but I found out that interviewing you did not hurt at all. Heck I even did 4 more the same day with other marketers and I was able to complete my product Layoff Your Boss It seems we face not only the fear of failure or fear of success, we also face big ugly giants in our path that just seem to be so unbeatable so we quick make a U_turn and run while we feel we still can in search of a differrent path only to find the same giant greeting us on the new road to success. We have faced a lot of giants in our life and have beaten them bu this one seems so much bigger than the last. I think if we really looked at the last giant we will see it seemed just as big and we found a way to defeat it. If not then maybe we need to stop giving so many victories to the giants and take them down. Most brick walls we face are self made or made by others in our life and they were built one brick at a time. It is the only way you can build a brick wall that I know of. Great thing about taking them down is that you can blow them up and they come down with one big bang, or if you prefer you take them back down one brick at a time. but they all can come down. Thank you for being one of those people that holds the ladder while others climb Over their giants or by digging in and helping others take the walls apart one brick at a time. You helped me blow up my walls even though I seen you as one of the big scary giants at first glance LOL! Jeff Wellman Heather very nice post, Just got done posting on basically the same thing.

I remember the fear I was facing the day I asked you for an interview and then going to my hotel room that night wondering what in the heck I just did. Especially once I started researching you and came across the Barbra Walters of the Internet!

Those words met me with such force that night and I almost called the interview off.

I soon decided they were just words on a website and they were of no threat to me.

The only thing that was threatening me was me and my fear of failing and looking like a moron, and failing to meet my son’s (Keith Wellman) expectations of his Father.

Well if I was going to fail I decided I would fail big and just get it over with. Geesh I found out it was not the easiest thing I ever did but I found out that interviewing you did not hurt at all. Heck I even did 4 more the same day with other marketers and I was able to complete my product Layoff Your Boss

It seems we face not only the fear of failure or fear of success, we also face big ugly giants in our path that just seem to be so unbeatable so we quick make a U_turn and run while we feel we still can in search of a differrent path only to find the same giant greeting us on the new road to success.

We have faced a lot of giants in our life and have beaten them bu this one seems so much bigger than the last. I think if we really looked at the last giant we will see it seemed just as big and we found a way to defeat it.

If not then maybe we need to stop giving so many victories to the giants and take them down.

Most brick walls we face are self made or made by others in our life and they were built one brick at a time. It is the only way you can build a brick wall that I know of.

Great thing about taking them down is that you can blow them up and they come down with one big bang, or if you prefer you take them back down one brick at a time. but they all can come down.

Thank you for being one of those people that holds the ladder while others climb Over their giants or by digging in and helping others take the walls apart one brick at a time.

You helped me blow up my walls even though I seen you as one of the big scary giants at first glance LOL!

Jeff Wellman

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