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May 30, 2010

Fighting Spirit = Fabrication or Inspiration?

A couple of days ago, some anchors on Fox’s Good Day New York said Bret Michaels must have been faking his illnesses over the past few weeks, because nobody can recover that fast… and because Michaels has gotten some nationwide sympathy over his ordeals.

Here’s a video of the accusation:



I admit, I wanted Bret to win Celebrity Apprentice, and was glad he did. But I started calling it over a month ago when it became clear that this guy — who I, like many of his colleagues, had written off as a non-contender — was one of the most creative, ambitious people I had seen in some time.

Bottom line, he won my respect and admiration based on his actions and abilities.

So here’s the question: if somebody has a fighting spirit, and is able to overcome and conquer what life throws his way, does that make him a faker?

Only to naysayers who never like to see people pull off what they don’t believe they, personally, can do…

>>> CONTINUE READING Fighting Spirit = Fabrication or Inspiration?…

About the Author:

Heather Vale Goss is a writer, journalist and interviewer known as The Unwrapper™. Since 1993, she has worked in all media: TV, radio, print and online. She runs the online publishing company LWL (Life Without Limits) Media Inc., The Life Improvement Company™, with her husband, Barry Goss.

She also freelances for top websites and marketers, and teaches others how to conduct high-quality, profitable interviews through her Interviewing Unwrapped home-study package. You can connect with her on her official Facebook page or by following her on Twitter.

May 20, 2010

Why People Love Underdogs… and Hate Villains

Last year I wrote a post about British singing sensation Susan Boyle called Why Does the World Love an Underdog?

It wasn’t picking on Susan — it was pointing out limiting patterns many people have, and why we need to provide value in order to receive it — but it caused quite an uproar from Susan fans who took it personally, and don’t understand the personal-development lessons that Barry and I offer by dissecting trends and actions.

(This blog is written by me, whereas our LWL blog has been written by both of us, but make no mistake… I discuss a lot of thoughts and feelings with Barry before writing posts like this, so parts of him are here too.)

Don’t go to that post looking for the flames, though, because most of them weren’t approved. I always welcome intelligent commentary, but not things without substance, like, “You’re evil! Susan rules!”

Again, I think Susan has a great singing voice — not my taste, but she’s certainly talented.

As for the winner of this season’s Survivor: Heroes vs. Villains, I can’t say the same thing. What it proves is that some people still love underdogs, and can’t stand villains…

>>> CONTINUE READING Why People Love Underdogs… and Hate Villains…

About the Author:

Heather Vale Goss is a writer, journalist and interviewer known as The Unwrapper™. Since 1993, she has worked in all media: TV, radio, print and online. She runs the online publishing company LWL (Life Without Limits) Media Inc., The Life Improvement Company™, with her husband, Barry Goss.

She also freelances for top websites and marketers, and teaches others how to conduct high-quality, profitable interviews through her Interviewing Unwrapped home-study package. You can connect with her on her official Facebook page or by following her on Twitter.

January 10, 2010

The Raging Debate on the Spiritual Side of Avatar

avatar-movie-poster-smThere’s been a raging debate going on the past week or so about James Cameron’s movie Avatar.

Barry and I went to see it a week ago, and both agreed it was the best movie we’d ever seen… both visually and intellectually.

We chose the 3-D version, which has come a long way since the old green-and-red imagery they used to use, and it definitely enhanced the experience.

Extreme nutshell version: American military people are destroying the indigenous forests of the planet Pandora, in an effort to mine unobtainium (ha, ha) which is worth $20 million a kilogram. The Na’vi, the spiritual indigenous people, don’t want to lose their sacred land and trees. The hero falls in love with their culture, and one of their people, so ends up wanting to help them rather than destroy them.

We see all three classic storybook struggles: man vs. man, man vs. nature, and man vs. himself as the hero embraces the ways of the Na’vi and their Goddess, Eywa (sometimes spelled Ai’wa).

And all of a sudden, everyone’s analyzing the message(s) of the movie… which is fine, because there were a lot of messages to be mined from it, and it gives writers something to write about. But over-analyzing can cause some friction, just like in high school lit class where thousands of papers have been written about who’s the better Christ figure: Simon in Lord of the Flies, or Santiago in The Old Man and the Sea.

And just as back then, it’s pretty interesting to sit back and watch the sparks fly when people are talking about Avatar.

(It’s about) pantheism — a faith that equates God with Nature, and calls humanity into religious communion with the natural world,” wrote Ross Douthat in the New York Times. “The question is whether Nature actually deserves a religious response. Traditional theism has to wrestle with the problem of evil: if God is good, why does he allow suffering and death? But Nature is suffering and death. Its harmonies require violence. Its ‘circle of life’ is really a cycle of mortality.” By contrast, he says,  at least Christianity gives us an “escape upward” after death…

… Which shows that he apparently completely missed the spiritual side of the movie’s message: that we are all connected through unseen energy, and that energy lives on forever, as do we in our spiritual form — whether to be “with Eywa” (as one main character is) or to be reincarnated into another body (as the hero is at the end).

“(No, no, no, it’s) a combination of pantheism and theism, a view scholars today call ‘panentheism,’” replied Jay Michaelson in the Huffington Post. “Like mystics here on Earth, the Na’Vi have an experience of unity of consciousness with other beings, all of which (themselves included) are really just manifestations of one Being, which they call Ai’wa.”

He points out that the (highly overused) Sanskrit greeting, Namaste, means, “I see you,” which is the greeting used by the Na’vi people. But it doesn’t just literally mean “I see you,” so much as it means, “The God (or in this case, Goddess) in me sees the God in you.”

“Strictly speaking, the Na’vi are not pantheists. They worship a Godness — a Nature Goddess, to be sure, but one who hears prayers and sometimes answers them,” added Mark Silk of Spiritual Politics. “(And in fact) I’d say that Cameron has married some good old Christian grace-and-redemption theology to his eco-anti-imperialist parable,” he says, pointing to the character name “Grace Augustine” and the hero being “born again.”

avatar4Ahh, but wait… he’s not “born again” simply the way a “born again Christian” is, with a new belief. He’s also literally born again, as in reincarnated, into a different body — something that’s no longer talked about in the Bible.

Word has it that at one time, reincarnation may have been part of Biblical teachings — after all, every other religion seems to talk about it — but that it got thrown aside during the hundreds of years of playing “broken telephone”… when stories were being passed along verbally instead of being written down.

Or maybe the people of the day analyzed that part of the story, just as today we analyze Avatar, and decided that it didn’t need to be included.

While Matthew, Mark, Luke and John were the James Camerons of their day — the storytellers who got their parables across in the best way they could — they didn’t have the chance to painstakingly edit the final version the way Cameron does. The monks did that for them, much later.

Anyhow, the really funny part about the “is Avatar pantheist, or panantheist, or Christian?” debate is that nearly any human, of any religious background or belief, could see elements they relate to if we’d just strip back all the labels and accept it as a “spiritual” rather than “religious” movie.

And in fact, that’s the beauty in what’s known as the “Universal Approach” to spirituality

>>> CONTINUE READING The Raging Debate on the Spiritual Side of Avatar…

About the Author:

Heather Vale Goss is a writer, journalist and interviewer known as The Unwrapper™. Since 1993, she has worked in all media: TV, radio, print and online. She runs the online publishing company LWL (Life Without Limits) Media Inc., The Life Improvement Company™, with her husband, Barry Goss.

She also freelances for top websites and marketers, and teaches others how to conduct high-quality, profitable interviews through her Interviewing Unwrapped home-study package. You can connect with her on her official Facebook page or by following her on Twitter.

September 17, 2009

Boomhauer Goes To Vegas

… and Aerosmith calls for a recount. ;)

But more on that story in a moment...

So another season of America’s Got Talent just came to an end, and with it came a lot of, “Holy $@*&!” and “You’ve GOT to be kidding me!” in our house.

It got so passionate around here that Barry thought about writing a blog post himself, but he knew it would just get him too angry, and the smoke was pouring out of his ears like a Detroit smokestack as it was. He decided it would be best just to walk away.

See, he hates injustice even more than I do (or at least, he’s more demonstrative about it)… and injustice was definitely served on AGT.

If “America” truly did vote for the winners, then “America” certainly is playing it safe these days, and going with the status quo, as well as predictably flocking to underdogs as usual. It’s pretty sad, really, but to be expected.

The winner is 35-year-old unemployed chicken catcher Kevin Skinner, a folksy backwoods kinda guy who tries real darned hard to sing.

He’s been compared to Susan Boyle from Britain’s Got Talent. And I can see why… after all, I wrote an article about Susan, and how people tried to keep her down even after she FINALLY started getting out of her comfort zone…

And when I used her as a perfect example of how people love underdogs, and don’t like people who go out and achieve things on their own, people from around the world called me cold and harsh.

It’s almost like they didn’t read the article, but let their emotions take over and cause an over-reaction, thinking I was putting Susan down when in fact I was commenting on people who wanted to keep her down. Completely different!

And I’m sure if Skinner starts slicking himself up, making himself over into a Garth Brooks or Dwight Yoakam, people will be up in arms again. “Stay like one of us, Kevin!” they’ll all cry, just like they did to Susan.

The thing is, Susan can actually sing… and sing well, regardless of what you think of her style of music.

Kevin Skinner can’t.

>>> CONTINUE READING Boomhauer Goes To Vegas…

About the Author:

Heather Vale Goss is a writer, journalist and interviewer known as The Unwrapper™. Since 1993, she has worked in all media: TV, radio, print and online. She runs the online publishing company LWL (Life Without Limits) Media Inc., The Life Improvement Company™, with her husband, Barry Goss.

She also freelances for top websites and marketers, and teaches others how to conduct high-quality, profitable interviews through her Interviewing Unwrapped home-study package. You can connect with her on her official Facebook page or by following her on Twitter.

August 13, 2009

Teach Your Child Computers

If you want to teach your child how to use a computer, there are a few simple steps you can take.

Konan’s not old enough yet — all he wants to do is bang on the keyboard — but if your child is, my articles for eHow outline it for you. Start with the first link before moving on to the second, which builds on the lessons:

Computer Tutorial for Kids

Computer Lessons for Children

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About the Author:

Heather Vale Goss is a writer, journalist and interviewer known as The Unwrapper™. Since 1993, she has worked in all media: TV, radio, print and online. She runs the online publishing company LWL (Life Without Limits) Media Inc., The Life Improvement Company™, with her husband, Barry Goss.

She also freelances for top websites and marketers, and teaches others how to conduct high-quality, profitable interviews through her Interviewing Unwrapped home-study package. You can connect with her on her official Facebook page or by following her on Twitter.

August 9, 2009

Turning Dreams Into Reality

10 years ago, I met and interviewed a woman for the first of several times…

Her name is Diane Dupuy, and she’s an amazing example of forging through life, no matter what roadblocks stand in the way, and turning seemingly impossible dreams into reality.

Not just her own dreams… but those of people who would normally never be given a chance.

So what do they do? Make their own opportunities.

Read Diane’s story in our latest Hidden Heroes post on the LWL Worldwide blog

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About the Author:

Heather Vale Goss is a writer, journalist and interviewer known as The Unwrapper™. Since 1993, she has worked in all media: TV, radio, print and online. She runs the online publishing company LWL (Life Without Limits) Media Inc., The Life Improvement Company™, with her husband, Barry Goss.

She also freelances for top websites and marketers, and teaches others how to conduct high-quality, profitable interviews through her Interviewing Unwrapped home-study package. You can connect with her on her official Facebook page or by following her on Twitter.

August 1, 2009

How Does This Stuff Work?

Ever wondered how clothes were “dry cleaned” without getting wet? Or how paper clips are made? Or how you can have a virtual meeting with someone online?

My articles on eHow tell you…

How Does Web Conferencing Work?

How Are Paper Clips Manufactured?

How Do Dry Cleaning Products Work?

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About the Author:

Heather Vale Goss is a writer, journalist and interviewer known as The Unwrapper™. Since 1993, she has worked in all media: TV, radio, print and online. She runs the online publishing company LWL (Life Without Limits) Media Inc., The Life Improvement Company™, with her husband, Barry Goss.

She also freelances for top websites and marketers, and teaches others how to conduct high-quality, profitable interviews through her Interviewing Unwrapped home-study package. You can connect with her on her official Facebook page or by following her on Twitter.

July 31, 2009

Tips on the BlackBerry Pearl

Alright, so I spent three years working as an Account Rep and trainer for Nokia… and when does that knowledge ever get used again?

Well, in this case I was assigned a couple of articles about the BlackBerry Pearl 8100 for eHow.

If you want to find out how to copy the contacts onto your SIM card, or change the color of the trackball, my articles will help you out:

How to Copy Contacts to the BlackBerry Pearl SIM Card

How to Change the Color of a BlackBerry Pearl

You’re right, I was never a BlackBerry rep, but I owned one… and these wireless devices are all pretty much the same, anyhow!

Keep Unwrapping The Mysteries of Life!

Heather Vale Goss

About the Author:

Heather Vale Goss is a writer, journalist and interviewer known as The Unwrapper™. Since 1993, she has worked in all media: TV, radio, print and online. She runs the online publishing company LWL (Life Without Limits) Media Inc., The Life Improvement Company™, with her husband, Barry Goss.

She also freelances for top websites and marketers, and teaches others how to conduct high-quality, profitable interviews through her Interviewing Unwrapped home-study package. You can connect with her on her official Facebook page or by following her on Twitter.

April 26, 2009

Why Does The World Love An Underdog?

Susan BoyleUnless you’ve been living under a rock the past few weeks, you’ve no doubt heard about Susan Boyle, the 47-year-old woman who became a media sensation after singing on Britain’s Got Talent.

It seems like she’s everybody’s darling, and the Susan Boyle bandwagon is almost full — with celebrities, non-celebrities, and even people, like peers of ours, that normally view this type of phenomenon with a critical eye.

And now people are up in arms because she’s gotten a makeover (including hair style and dye job, eyebrow shaping and a new wardrobe) that makes her look more her age, instead of 10-15 years older than she is.

Susan had acknowledged that she didn’t realize how “frumpy” she looked until she saw herself on TV, and that with the world watching her now, she wanted to look her best. But some people are intent on keeping her “frumpy”.

According to Toni Jones, assistant fashion editor from British tabloid The Sun, the paper’s readers want Susan to remain “one of us”… and the powers that be at Britain’s Got Talent want her to “look ordinary” and stay “real”.

Funny, because she looks pretty “real” to me now… and, yes, ordinary too.

There’s nothing wrong with that. But it seems the show actually wanted her to be beyond ordinary — because the more of an underdog they could make her out to be, the bigger sensation they would have on their hands.

Susan herself helped start the ball rolling by lacking a certain amount of drive and ambition, by choosing for many years to stay stuck in her comfort zone, and by deciding to think of herself as a victim.

But the TV producers played up on her low self-esteem on purpose.

Let’s take a closer look at why that might be, and what we can learn from it…

>>> CONTINUE READING Why Does The World Love An Underdog?…

About the Author:

Heather Vale Goss is a writer, journalist and interviewer known as The Unwrapper™. Since 1993, she has worked in all media: TV, radio, print and online. She runs the online publishing company LWL (Life Without Limits) Media Inc., The Life Improvement Company™, with her husband, Barry Goss.

She also freelances for top websites and marketers, and teaches others how to conduct high-quality, profitable interviews through her Interviewing Unwrapped home-study package. You can connect with her on her official Facebook page or by following her on Twitter.

February 17, 2009

Don’t Judge a Phone By Its Cover

I used to work as an account rep for Nokia. Ugliest phones in the world, but they worked well… getting flawless reception where other manufacturers went dead.

And they were always on the cutting edge of some trends.

Would have been really cool to see this Skype integration back then!

Then again, as always, seems like all the fun happens overseas!

Keep Unwrapping The Mysteries of Life!

Heather Vale Goss

About the Author:

Heather Vale Goss is a writer, journalist and interviewer known as The Unwrapper™. Since 1993, she has worked in all media: TV, radio, print and online. She runs the online publishing company LWL (Life Without Limits) Media Inc., The Life Improvement Company™, with her husband, Barry Goss.

She also freelances for top websites and marketers, and teaches others how to conduct high-quality, profitable interviews through her Interviewing Unwrapped home-study package. You can connect with her on her official Facebook page or by following her on Twitter.
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