{"id":329,"date":"2009-01-10T13:54:52","date_gmt":"2009-01-10T20:54:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heathervale.com\/blog\/?p=329"},"modified":"2023-04-17T16:12:47","modified_gmt":"2023-04-18T00:12:47","slug":"youre-not-all-that-but-you-can-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heathervale.com\/blog\/2009\/01\/10\/youre-not-all-that-but-you-can-be\/","title":{"rendered":"You&#8217;re Not All That&#8230; But You Can Be!"},"content":{"rendered":"<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/like.php?href=https:\/\/heathervale.com\/blog\/2009\/01\/10\/youre-not-all-that-but-you-can-be\/&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=1&amp;width=450&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light&amp;font=\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" style=\"border:none; overflow:hidden; width:450px; height:25px\"><\/iframe><iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/like.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fheathervale.com%2Fblog%2F2009%2F01%2F10%2Fyoure-not-all-that-but-you-can-be%2F&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=true&amp;width=450&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light&amp;height=80\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" style=\"border:none; overflow:hidden; width:450px; height:80px;\" allowTransparency=\"true\"><\/iframe><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" style=\"margin: 5px; float: left\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lwlworldwide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/winget-l.jpg\" alt=\"Larry Winget\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For the past few weeks, I&#8217;ve been reading some books with some pretty harsh titles.<\/p>\n<p>But hey, Barry and I love that&#8230; sometimes people just don&#8217;t need to be told how powerful and perfect they are, because it just lets them settle into a comfort zone.<\/p>\n<p>In order to achieve the most they can, sometimes people need to be told, &#8220;Here&#8217;s how you messed up&#8230; and here&#8217;s how to fix it!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So I&#8217;ve been reading <strong>Larry Winget<\/strong>&#8216;s books that he sent us in preparation of our upcoming interview:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Shut Up, Stop Whining And Get A Life: A Kick-Butt Approach to a Better Life<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>It\u2019s Called Work For A Reason: Your Success Is Your Own Damn Fault<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>You\u2019re Broke Because You Want To Be: How to Stop Getting By and Start Getting Ahead<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>People Are Idiots And I Can Prove It: The 10 Ways You Are Sabotaging Yourself and How You Can Overcome Them<\/em>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>I met Larry on <a href=\"http:\/\/profile.to\/heathervale\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a>, and asked him for an interview&#8230; he said yes, and we&#8217;re doing it on January 15th.<\/p>\n<p>A few years ago, I used <a href=\"http:\/\/myspace.com\/hvale\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">MySpace<\/a> to book interviews with people that I couldn&#8217;t contact by email.\u00a0 But MySpace has run its course of effectiveness for that lately.<\/p>\n<p>People I know are even shutting down their MySpace accounts because of all the spam (I&#8217;m keeping mine up, because it&#8217;s still a source of backlinks from an authority site&#8230; but I almost never log in anymore).<\/p>\n<p>Next I&#8217;ll be using <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/heathervale\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Twitter<\/a> to set up interviews, since it&#8217;s fast and interactive. Yes, the social media landscape keeps changing, and I have to change my tactics to go along with it.<\/p>\n<p>But back to Larry Winget&#8230; they call him the Pitbull of Personal Development for a reason, and we&#8217;re looking forward to taking on those teeth!<\/p>\n<p>To find out more about the interview, and sign up to be part of the free live audience, check out our <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lwlworldwide.com\/blog\/us-interviewing-a-pitbull\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LWL blog post about Larry<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Keep Unwrapping The Mysteries of Life!<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Heather Vale Goss\" src=\"http:\/\/heathervale.com\/images\/sigHVG_2.1_blue.gif\" alt=\"Heather Vale Goss\" width=\"205\" height=\"35\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For the past few weeks, I&#8217;ve been reading some books with some pretty harsh titles. 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